Tuesday, February 15, 2011

An oracle called history

In the village where my father, grandfather and their forefathers were born, there was a hundred year old book written by a monk who came to do his service for the local church. This funny fellow was in the habit of shocking people with his strange visions of future often provoked by people and situations, but sometimes he would simply spell it out, in a manner of a local Nostradamus. These disturbing and often enigmatic windows to the future were said to be written down in that ancient book. I have never seen the written proof itself but I’ve been hearing some of his words circling around from mouth to mouth among the locals ever since I was a kid. Some whispered them with awe, or better say fear, others repeated them mockingly, yet nobody believed that some of his most alarming prophecies would come true, at least not in their life time. How on earth could one vast area of the country become deserted over night, as he used to say? And what did he mean by saying that “the ones who leave the first will eat with a golden spoon, whereas those who leave the last will have nothing but a wooden one”?

With the onset of war, these perplexing words started to make more sense and when the day came when deserted soldiers, runaway husbands and fathers rushed from battlefields to their villages spreading the word that the enemy was approaching fast and that there was no time for packing, people jumped in the cars and tractor trailers knowing that their wooden spoons were waiting for them.

Some time ago I was reading a non-fiction book written by a renowned local historian describing my homeland less than a hundred years ago when I came to a passage that gave a very vivid account of a situation shockingly similar to the one my family and I went through in recent history. There was an ethnic clash in which one side was breaking the shop windows of another with the same hatred and even identical  threatening words shouted out loud. I marched into the kitchen with a book and demanded an explanation from my father. I wanted to know if he knew anything about it. Actually it was not a question, it sounded more like an accusation and I didn’t quite believe him when he said he hadn’t heard about that very episode. Yet, even so, he knew about the animosity, and the hatred, and how unwelcome we were and he still let us go through that same hell our forefathers had gone through, obviously in vain. I held him responsible. I found him guilty of being naive for believing that people are too good to let horrors happen or, even worse, repeat. He trusted them too much, he didn’t take the warning signs seriously and completely ignored history that made a fool of us again. I could almost hear it laughing.

My anger waned quickly as I knew I loved my father for what he was, sometimes too naive but more often as openhearted and giving as one can be. However my issue with the history remained unresolved. How are we to handle it? Ignore it, scorn it and each and every time learn all over again, or acknowledge it and approach life and the world more carefully? If we could only know who wrote it and whose version of a story we are presented with. And which version is the right one, if there is the right one? We are living in an age of doubt acutely aware of what a little propaganda and marketing can do. Words have become the most powerful weapons.

Another issue is how to approach people then? Seeing the worst of them made me perhaps too careful. In an attempt not to be naive, at one point I became too reserved and sceptical. And when it comes to people, it is not hard to guess what happens if you keep yourself at a safe distance from the potential danger. Yes, you are bound to end up feeling lonely.

Perhaps father was right after all. Even if you do know historical facts and learn its lessons, living by them turns out be too hard. I may still be confused about the best approach to history, but I am nevertheless more than thankful to both my parents for being raised as a human being, neither superior nor inferior, but equal to anybody on this planet no matter what any propaganda may try to convince me into believing.